Q. I am going to be the maid of honor at my sister's wedding this summer and she has given me the freedom to choose my own dress. I found a really beautiful off-white dress but I'm not sure if it's appropriate to wear white or ivory to the wedding. What do you think?
A. It is typically a faux pas for anyone but the bride to wear white (or ivory) to a wedding, for fear of outshining the bride. At the royal wedding last week, Kate Middleton's sister Pippa (below) wore an ivory dress and there has been a lot of buzz about whether she stole the spotlight from the princess. Though there's typically no one more beautiful than a glowing bride, I'm of the opinion that she should be the only one in white at the wedding. Therefore, it's probably best that you look for a different dress, even if your sister seem's fine with your choice.